tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28175944.post115610027823389619..comments2023-05-18T08:18:59.488-06:00Comments on The Kewl Beans Place: Matter of PerspectiveIrshlashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01592841277158422613noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28175944.post-1158356971889685532006-09-15T15:49:00.000-06:002006-09-15T15:49:00.000-06:00Thought I'd send through another comment. Wow, I ...Thought I'd send through another comment. Wow, I have to admire people who are able to so completely and fully describe feelings. I think it's really admirable how you can be so completely honest about things. <BR/><BR/>My IF "suffering" was mainly done from 1999-2003 and though I would love to have a biological child, my current hubby and I really didn't go to far with "trying". I know all to well the horrific feelings of disappointment and envy and truly didn't want to do it again. It spoils so many things. I often felt exactly as you did hearing those "I'm pregnant" words in a complaining voice. Bitch, was about all I could think of! LOL<BR/><BR/>And I also agree that we as adoptive parents should be at that middle ground with that woman who was our child's first mother. I will always try to believe that she wanted this baby so much, but was unable to care for him or her. And that is what I'd like for my child to believe. Hopefully we'll both be able to get more info than is typical about our baby's first mothers.<BR/><BR/>Wow, I've written a post LOLAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13117205546035600319noreply@blogger.com